Love is all you need!!...
Hmmm!!!.. Big question... Isn't it??... Recently i was listening to this song "All you need is Love"... And it made me write this post.. I won't lie but believe me that i'm 23 and still i never had any relationship what so ever...
Personally I have a given a lot of thought to it...I dont unerstand it completely but I'll say that love is all about companionship.. We meet that person everyday, we sit in coffee house,chatting about almost everthing...Taking a long walk together in sunset and in rainy season when a cool breeze strikes our face,siping a cup of tea together and walking on beach holding hand in hand, feeling the warmth...
When he/she's not around, you feel a deep void, a feeling of loosing something very precious...Now is it a feeling of love or companionship... Even I don't have a clear idea but just to contemplate my feellings i'll say that if u miss someone's company, someone's touch, someone's talking, you are very close to be in love to that person...
I'll say Love is not about calling in the middle of night and saying "I love you".. Nor it's about gifting a bouquet of roses on Valentine's day or finding desperate attempts to gift one...
I'll gift it because i feel like giving... To me sitting on a lake side for hours is much better then going on a shopping spree... To me riding with her on bike is much more romantic then gifting her a diamond...
Everbody have crushes in their lives... I too had my share of luck... But was it Love or infatuation or just another pasing moment...Well difficult to tell!!.In movies, as they say Love at first sight, I'll say it's Lust which comes first at sight... You are completely lost in some other world, you tend to laugh by yourself, you tend to forget everything else...Sometimes i feel that wy i never had such a feeling but then it sounds too kidish and fictious and can only be a part of some romantic movie pic..
So i'll rather settle for a more mature relationship where she should be a friend first and then a lover... She should be able to understand me and complement me...
and am still waiting for how it feels to be in love, to hold her hand, to look into her eyes, to see her sleeping... Well just a thought of it gives me so much pleasure and satisfaction!!...
How actual LOVE would feel alike??....
